The dress

Oh, the dress. Obviously this will be crux upon which the rest of the wedding will rest. ;-) I know I want a knee or tea-length dress, and I want it white, but other than that ... ugh! So far I'm thinking either a fitted knee-length lace number or a tea-length dress with a "hoop" skirt under which I can put a colored petticoat. I also think I may want a jacket or shrug to hide my genetically deficient jumbo arms. Here are some pics of options I found, but of course I won't know how any style really looks on me until I try a bunch of dresses on: